Est. 2025

Community Guidelines

Our mission is to run Southern Africa's most discreet, privacy-first online dating platform — and that starts with these standards for every member in South Africa, Zimbabwe, Botswana and beyond.

Every member of Flinta — whether single, married and discreet, or part of the LGBTQ+ community — agrees to the following when they join. These guidelines protect your privacy, your content, and the people you meet. Violations are taken seriously and may result in permanent account termination.

You must be 18+

Age verification is required at sign-up. Using a fake identity, fake age, or impersonating another person results in an immediate permanent ban. No exceptions.

Protect each other's privacy

Never share, screenshot, or redistribute another member's private messages, voice notes, or content outside of Flinta. Doing so breaches these guidelines and may breach applicable law.

Respect auto-delete

If a member sets a message or piece of media to auto-delete, attempting to capture or preserve that content is a direct violation of their privacy and these guidelines.

Zero tolerance: minors

Any content depicting, involving, or targeting individuals under 18 is absolutely forbidden and reported to the relevant authorities. This is our strictest rule — there is no appeal.

Respectful conduct

Harassment, threats, hate speech, and targeted abuse have no place here — including unsolicited explicit messages or coercive behaviour in direct messages.

Voice notes & audio

Voice notes are a core part of Flinta. The same rules apply here as elsewhere — no threats, no non-consensual recording of third parties, no content meant to harm or intimidate.

Keep it on-platform

Soliciting payments off-platform — bypassing Flinta's billing system — is prohibited. It removes your consumer and member protection rights and may result in suspension.

Consent in content

Every individual who appears in your content must have given informed, explicit consent. You must be able to provide documented proof of consent for anyone visible in what you post.

Report violations

See content or behaviour that violates these guidelines? Use the in-app report button or email support@flinta.app. We review every report and act within 24 hours on serious violations.

Important notice

Flinta provides a secure and discreet platform, but we are not liable for the choices you make in private conversations or off-platform interactions. Exercise good judgment — discreet billing and auto-deleting messages protect your privacy on Flinta, but they cannot protect you from decisions made outside it.